How I Learned to Diffuse Arguments with my High D Husband

It took a few tries……..Here’s what I did 1. Choose to NOT be offended (extremely hard to do- especially when you are) Keep trying, and it becomes easier, I promise 2. Answer someone’s negative comment calmly, and concisely with a polite answer,...

A Short Course for Resolving Conflict

Here is the low down on how I work with my children, and teach them with their spouses, my husband, and my demanding 3rd child. 1. Choose to NOT be offended (extremely hard to do-especially when you are) Keep trying, and it becomes easier I promise 2. Answer someones...

Do The People That Don’t Talk Much Have Any Feelings?

I met a man who reminded me of myself. Wanting love and being thwarted at every turn. If you don’t speak much, does it mean you don’t have any feelings? Of course not. We all have feelings. How we express them is the difference between personalities, and...

What About The Person Who Asks Too Many Questions?

Have you met, or are you actually the person, who needs to know all the facts, and how it started, who it involved, and you have to imagine where the whole process will end up? Asking questions is a  high C person’s way of solving issues when he or she  needs to...

Have You Ever Had A Person In Charge Who You Thought Was Mean?

Have you ever run into this successful self-assured kind of person, who knows what they want, and how to get it and get it Fast? High D people are Doers, sometimes to the point of roughshodding over people who get in their way.  They don’t understand...

Have You Ever Had The Impression Someone Was Weak?

Unfortunately some of us judge people, by the way they respond. Especially if we are a high C which is cautious, calculating, and critical? We have to have the method, and if someone doesn’t fit our mold, than we judge them as being incompetent. Nothing could be...